One of my earliest childhood memories is waking up early before school to make it to the hair salon by 5 a.m. Two hours in the salon and out the door no later than 7:15 a.m to make it to school by 8 a.m.
As many young girls and women know, a trip to the hair salon has never been an in-and-out type of experience. But, this is especially true in the black community. Hours are spent on the wash, blow dry and styling of hair depending on the services. It can take anywhere from three to six hours to finish an appointment.
The hair salon is a place where women go to relax, gossip and escape reality for a few hours.
But, reality sets in far before those trips to the hair salon start. Growing up, young black girls are asked "why does your hair look like that?" The first time I was asked this question marked a pivotal moment in my life where I realized my hair said a lot about who I am as a person. Not only was my skin color an identifier of my blackness, but so was my hair. And, that's a tough pill to swallow for a 7- year-old girl.
Girls are taught that "nappy hair" is not cute. The word nappy can be traced to slave times when it was used as an insult against African slaves. Because of that word and its ugly origin, many black women are trained from birth to take pride in the way their hair looks. It becomes a large part of everyday life both physically and financially.
Sanaa Lathan said it best in her new Netflix original movie "Nappily Ever After." "No fairy tale ever ended with the words nappily ever after." That line resonated with many black women around the world.
In fact, black consumers spent $54.4 million on ethnic hair and beauty aids in 2017, according to the Nielson "Black Dollars Matter: The Sales Impact Of Black Consumers" report.
Black women wear different hairstyles including weaves, wigs, extensions, and perms. Sometimes it's because of the convenience and sometimes it's a way of fitting in with the beauty standards of rest of the world.
In 2016, 44 percent of black women reported having a weave, wig or extensions in the last 12 months.
Bay Area native, Dyshanae Evans, got her first perm or relaxer at the age of 12. Relaxers chemically straighten textured hair. Evans got her first weave at the age of 14, and now, as a college student at age 21, her weaves are a part of her identity.
But, her first relaxer is where her hair journey really began. Evans blames her first perm on ruining her hair.
"My mom didn't tell me what a perm was," Evans said. "I didn't know how to properly take care of my hair while having a perm, but she told me the texture of my hair was too difficult and a perm would help."
There has been a 34% decline in the market value of relaxers since 2009, according to the 2017 Good Hair Study.
The decline in relaxers is credited to the "natural hair movement" that has been on the rise in the last decade. But, in addition to black women embracing their natural hair there's also been an increase in the use of protective hairstyles.
Protective Hairstyles
Many hairstyles fall under the web of protective hairstyles. These types of styles include but are not limited to weaves, wigs, braided extensions, and buns.
Evans chooses to wear protective styles.
"I choose not to wear my natural hair because my hair is very thin," she says. "Weaves are protective styles, along with braids and anything else that doesn't involve heat being put in your hair."
For a weave, hair is braided up, then a net is placed over the braids secured with a needle and thread. Finally hair (usually human hair) called tracks are sewn into the net on the head. And no, it doesn't stay on the head forever. Weaves must be redone every six to eight weeks.
"I do about four weaves on average daily," says L.A.- based hair stylist Trey Majors. "But, I love wigs because you can take them off at the end of the day, they protect your hair and your edges."
Wigs — lace front wigs are most popular right now — are easily removed and can be secured on the head with or without tape or glue. The base of the wig is lace and an extra flap of lace is located on the brim of the wig. Once the wig is placed and fitted on a head, the leftover lace is cut according to the hairline. If it's done correctly, it's hard to tell it's a wig. Wig wearers love the versatility. They also don't damage the hair. Wigs are a favorite of celebrities like Beyonce, Kim Zolciak Biermann and Kylie Jenner.
Braided extensions are when hair (usually synthetic hair) is braided into the natural hair. A couple of years ago, '90s favorite "box braids" made a comeback. Janet Jackson rocked these braids affectionately known as "poetic justice braids" named after the movie, "Poetic Justice," which she starred in with the late Tupac.