‘Keep Your Head Down’
The Silent Asian Immigrants in the DACA Debate
Gaby Cabalza was nine years old when she realized she had to worry about her parents in a way that other kids didn’t. One day after school, she walked into the dining room where the air was thick and dense with fear and sadness. She found her parents sobbing at the table because of a traffic ticket.
“Dad might have to go for a while, okay?” Cabalza’s mother said to her when tears had already laid in small puddles on the dining table.
“I didn’t understand that where he was going or why? And why the ticket meant that? I didn’t understand any of that at all, it was just so over my head,” said Cabalza. “I just remember being really scared.”
For Cabalza, whose family immigrated to the U.S. without authorization in 2000, a ticket meant her dad could be deported back to the Philippines.
Cabalza’s father didn’t end up having to leave the country, but the experience was a wake-up call to her. It was one of the moments that contributed to Cabalza’s understanding of her identity, when she started to realize her experience was not like everyone else’s.
The 21-year-old is one of the nearly 800,000 young immigrants who are now living with uncertainty after Trump’s administration announced to end the Deferred Action for Childhood (DACA), a program that protects immigrants who came to the United States illegally before 16-year-old from deportation.
Cabalza’s family came from the Philippines when she was four. Growing up in an Asian family, she doesn’t remember there ever to be a conversation with her parents about her identity and what it means.
“I think it was always an assumption, it was never explained,” she said. “At least from my experience, Asian American communication from the elderly is not always the most efficient or straightforward way of getting information. It’s always something that they’re trying to hide or help you with and support you in, and sometimes it buries the truth also.”
According to statistics from the Migrant Policy Institute, Immigrants from Asian countries have some of the lowest application rates. Compared to the Mexicans, which 84 percent of DACA eligible applicants applied for the amnesty program, only 16 percent of South Korean eligible applicants applied. Among the nearly 136,000 eligible applicants from Asian countries, only 15,000 of them applied for DACA, contributing to the 11 percent of application rate.
“At least from my experience with some of the communities I work with, there’s really a reluctance to, so-called ‘get out of the shadows’ and be known as being undocumented,” said Cynthia Buiza, the executive director of the California Immigrant Policy Center.
“The cultural value of conformity added to the stigma and the sense of shame, that makes sense,” Ruth Chung, professor at the University of Southern California’s Rossier School of Education believed the model minority image has been internalized within members of the Asian communities and has silenced people with illegal status.
“They look around and they think, ‘oh! you know, Asian American communities are supposed to be successful and well-achieving,’” Chung explained. “They feel ashamed and this stigma of being deviant or unusual or different from what they perceive to be the norm within the Asian American community.”
But illegal immigration isn’t rare in the Asian American community. According to a recent report from the Pew Research Center, “Asian unauthorized immigrants made up about 13 percent of the 11.1 million unauthorized immigrants who live in the U.S.” And a report from AAPI shows “about one out of every seven Asian immigrants is undocumented.”
“They largely operate in a subterranean level where they’re there but they try to remain somewhat aloof and unobtrusive for fear that even within their communities, they might be exposed and put at risk,” said Chung.
Like many other children growing up in an Asian American family, Cabalza was taught to keep her head down and go with the flow, “and don’t even think about why it’s wrong or if it’s wrong, or things shouldn’t be this way, just internalize and go.”
When she finally met the first other person who doesn’t have legal status and shared the same fear with her in college, Cabalza’s whole narrative changed.
“Having that share experience and finally being understood by someone was really like relieving to me,” she said with a slight smile on her face. “Finding out he was also undocumented was a catalyst for me coming to turns of it. That was definitely the first step in recognizing it was okay, and that my story was important.”
Studying in a white Christian high school, Cabalza was always surrounded by conservative peers who don’t welcome immigrants. She remembered hearing one of her best friends, who is not an Asian, in high school saying: “We should keep immigrants out. They’re taking our jobs.”
During those times, she would always be quiet and not really engaged. Especially, when others think of Asian Americans as the model minority and don’t assume her having the issue other minority crews have.
“It’s really hard for us to feel like we’re like a part of the community sometimes, being undocumented, because people don’t think of us as such,” said Cabalza. “It’s hard because people don’t think that it’s something that affects us as well.”
After knowing better and getting closer with her best friend in high school, Cabalza decided to communicate with her.
Recalling the conversation, she remembered saying: “Hey, I’m undocumented, and this is a really shitty thing for me.”
“And she was like: ‘oh,’ she stopped and listened to me and reassess.”
Cabalza gained support from her close friends, but not everyone shares the same experience when they decided to reveal their status. Ian, who declined to give his last name, lost some of his closest friends due to his immigration status.
“I told a couple people I thought I could trust, but they stop talking to me afterwards. It made me very aware in who I tell,” said Ian, who fell out of status in 2012 when he was in his sophomore year in college.
For Ian, whose family is from the Philippines, shame isn’t the primary reason that stops him from revealing his status. It is the fear of losing his high school friends. “I still have a lot of friends, who were high school buddy with me who are Trump supporters. I Had to be very careful about that,” he explained, adding that he knows what his friends are capable of.