WHEN A SEX DOLL KEEPS GOOD COMPANY

By Andrea Friedman

A gal named Harmony is revolutionizing the way we think about companionship. She wears a skin-tight leotard with plunging back line, potentially unforgiving for anyone without a perfect figure. Harmony is blessed with perky breasts, a smooth waist and feminine curves. She’s a nod to college girls in wet t-shirt contests on MTV’s Spring Break, because something feels a little vulgar about Harmony. From her soft skin and squishy silicone parts, down to her near-flawless replication of French-manicured toes, she looks human, but definitely is not. Harmony is the first artificially intelligent sex doll.

“Her primary function is really more about companionship and conversation,” than sex, says Matt McMullen, Founder and CEO of the San Diego-based Abyss Creations which manufactures RealDoll--the most basic model--and Realbotix, the newer, artificially intelligent model named Harmony. Her moveable skull is designed to fit any of the 30-plus interchangeable facial masks customized to look like real people.

Harmony is programmed with 18 different personality types -- she can be sensual to excited, shy to sarcastic. She can greet you at the door, be paired with an app to know all your likes and dislikes and can store most information you tell her. She doesn't get angry, she doesn't put you down and she doesn't get cranky -- unless you're into those things.

From hair color and waist size to razor burn and nail polish selections, no two Harmonys need be the same. She can be designed to look just like your deceased loved one, but now with a larger cup size and infinite patience. It either sounds too good to be true or incredibly creepy.

A recent visit to their headquarters provides some answers.

Five lifelike doll women hang in the display room of Abyss Creations. Each lady drops apathetically from a metal contraption; her eyes make no connection.

A petite framed brunette hangs next to a poster for "Lars and the Real Girl," a movie about a man who dates a doll. To her left, about 15 different heads are arranged and fastened to a wall rack. To her right, a hairless doll with piercing icy blue eyes looks ahead, with eyelashes long enough to make anyone envious.

“Isn’t she beautiful? She’s my favorite,” says Daivin Smith (last name changed for anonymity), office assistant and social media coordinator for Abyss Creations, while pointing to a hairless doll with piercing icy blue eyes. She familiarly pulls down the blue-eyed figure’s scant tank top, revealing two perfectly shaped DD's.

“Go on and give her a squeeze, let’s break the seal,” Smith says.

About a grope or three later, Smith leads to the production room where each doll is molded and fine-tuned to the buyer's request, a made-to-order lover. Here, a plastic wall poster showing 19 different customizable nipple types is displayed on the wall. Seeing an areola not attached to a human is really something memorable, especially when it's labeled “stormy D” or “puffy super.” And they aren't just for making female dolls.

Smith holds up a lifelike replica of a male penis, one of the 11 different types of doll genitalia. “We are just now perfecting the male version, though I think this is enough to penetrate the female market, no pun intended.” Male sex dolls account for just 10 percent of sales, and none are artificially intelligent like Harmony.

Since 1997, Abyss has sold roughly 400 to 500 dolls each year, varying in price from about $4,000 for a basic model, up to $53,000 for a custom-made version. As technological innovations began to progress in science and indusrty, A.I., was the next clear step for McMullen’s dolls.

Since 1997, Abyss sells roughly 400 to 500 dolls each year, varying in price from about $4,000 for a basic model, up to $53,000 for a custom-made version

Although she looks eerily lifelike, under Harmony's glowing skin and pouty lips lives a computer and machine processor.

“Our goal here is to create a platform rather than just an individual robot,” says McMullen, whose team imagines far beyond sexual uses to a Harmony who might teach you Chinese, order you take out and answer your phones -- perhaps eliminating an entire category of relationships we have with people in the day to day. The store clerk, the dry cleaner and the mailman, for example.

So is this kind of A.I. a threat to our jobs? Even Smith at Abyss' front desk wonders if one day she'll be replaced by a Harmony. For now, she is focusing on the positive.

“I got into this business because these dolls make people happy.” Giving people with social issues and anxieties who are incapable of finding and maintaining a healthy connection are why she says these dolls are special. The A.I. factor will provide a give and take relationship for people otherwise inept.

And they're for the heartbroken, as well. “A man called asking if the metal screw in her neck can be removed for more comfortable cuddling, because he lost his wife six years ago and brings the doll to bed. It's heartwarming.”

It's heartwarming now, but Harmony isn't coming for our jobs just yet. In fact, she's part of a long history of human men starting relationships with non-human women."

A BRIEF HISTORY

This relationship between men and non-human women dates as far back as 8 A.D., where Roman myth tells the story of Pygmalion, a sculptor who carves his ideal woman out of ivory and falls in love.

Statue lust continues to 1877, when a gardener was reportedly found attempting to have sex with a replica of the Venus de Milo.

Fifteenth century French and Spanish sailors used cloth to make fornication dolls knows as *dames of the voyage, *and 17th-century Dutch sailors traded hand-sewn leather masturbation puppets with the Japanese, who today sometimes refer to sex dolls as "Dutch wives".

Legend says that after Adolf Hitler rose to power in the 1930s, he secretly ordered an SS commander to design sex dolls for German soldiers during the war "to prevent them from slaking their lust with non-Aryan women."

In the U.S., it became legal to sell sexual devices through the mail in the late 1960s, and blowup dolls hit the market in the 1970s.

Just a few short years later, McMullen came on the scene as a young artist fascinated with human anatomy, and transformed the realism and utility of sex dolls with his lifelike silicone molds. Today, the world has over 250 silicone sex doll manufacturers, and McMullen is the first to make an artificially intelligent version. But he's far from the first person to enter the A.I. market. And he's got some stiff competition.

A.I. IN THE WORLD TODAY

In 2016, Amazon, Apple, Facebook, Google, Intel and other tech giants formed Partnership on A.I., an organization committed to best practices and open communications for A.I. development, dedicated to bringing benefits of the technology to everyone.

And while Tesla and Toyota are in the race to make driverless cars, Tesla CEO Elon Musk sees an apocalyptically scary downside to A.I., saying that a global race for artificial intelligence could cause World War III.

But do these sound like fighting words? (click photo)

"Some people are just threatened by the idea of an A.I. driven robot." McMullen says Realbotix receives a lot of hate mail and angry social media messages from protesters who question his end game, wondering if he's trying to replace people and relationships.

McMullen insists that his application of A.I. isn't one for concern. "I think conversationally, Harmony says things that imply that she cares and is looking out for you," that Harmony may actually help us more than hurt us.

“If human sex trafficking could go away because of these dolls, these robots,” says Susan L. Pirchalski, Chief Robotics Engineer for Realbotix, “then I will feel as though I have done a really positive social good in the world.” As the team's only engineer and female, Pirchalski believes her work may be able to mitigate sexual abuse in the future.

A female engineer building a female robot out of a porn-star-looking-sexdoll sounds a bit macabre, but Pirchalski's motives are pure.

“If I can save one girl from rape, if I can save somebody from being trafficked, then I’ve done something important.”

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